Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- .This section is about men and women. --- 1/24/2006
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- "All men are the same", women say. "All women are the same", men say. Everyone's the same. Fu*k off. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- "All she wants to do is be friends", complaint by men is the same as "All he wants to do is fu*k", complaint by women. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- (1) Female goal: get as many men to be as deeply in love with you for as long as possible. Whether they have sex with you is immaterial. (2) Male goal: fu*k as many women as possible, as many times as possible, for as long as possible. Whether love is involved is immaterial. --- 12/30/1995
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- (1) Its woman's nature to be picky, fussy, fuss-budget, nitpicker? To select only the best mate. (2) Its guys nature to take any chick they can get. To not be fussy. --- 5/15/1998
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- (1) Male. (A) Positive traits: strong, adventurous. (B) Negative traits: overbearing, risky. (2) Female. (A) Positive traits: sensitive, security. (B) Negative traits: wishy washy, housebound mouse. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- (1) Men. Strength, toughness, action. (2) Women. Beauty, sensitivity, passivity. --- 05/06/1994
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- (1) Most women want looks, mind, status, money, stuff, and prestige, in that order. (2) Most guys want looks (face and body), mind, status, prestige, money, and stuff, in that order. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- (1) What do men want women for? (A) Companionship. (B) Comfort, mothering. (C) Someone to protect, fathering. (2) What do we see in women's eyes? (A) Someone socially acceptable. (B) Someone forever different and mysterious. (3) Is this really true? --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- (1) Women in their peaceful, pretty, decorated, indoor world. (2) Men in their wild, chaotic, raw, rough, physical, exterior world. --- 10/30/1997
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- All people are both dominant and submissive. All people are both heterosexual and homosexual. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Any gal or guy can have an overdeveloped or underdeveloped male or female side. Balance is the key in both sexes. --- 11/10/1993
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Are women ever really interested in sex? Are men ever really interested in anything but sex? Crappy plan. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Communication vs. sex. Most men could live on sex and forget about communication. Most women can live on communication and forget about sex. How far from the average am I in thinking both sex and communication are critical? --- 10/25/1994
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Deep down all women loathe all men. Deep down all men loathe all women. Deep down everyone loathes everyone. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Difference between being (1) Wimp: no back bone, caves in, no identity or values. (2) Homo: gay. (3) Submissive: likes to follow orders. Likes to be passive. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Female vs. male "minding", communication, and ways of socializing. --- 12/26/1997
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Four types of people. (1) Man's man: embodies males idea of ideal male. (2) Woman's man: embodies womans idea of ideal male. (3) Woman's woman: embodies womans idea of ideal woman. (4) Man's woman: embodies mans idea of ideal woman. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Four types of people. Womans idea of ideal male (female's male). Womans idea of ideal female (female's female). Mans idea of ideal female (male's female). Mans idea of ideal male (male's male). --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Gender stereotypes. (1) Women: polite, quiet, neat, clean, indoors. (2) Men: rude, loud, slobs, physical, outdoorsy. --- 8/5/2001
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Guys want to get laid and to not give up any emotion. Women want to get as much and as many emotions out of guys as possible and to not have to screw them. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Men and women. Differences in physical, psychological, and social. In any individual, and in any society. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Men are loud in everyday behavior compared to women. Although men are not loud compared to men, they are just normal. Women are quiet and subtle compared to men. Although women are not quiet compared to women, they are just normal. Women can hear men, only too well. To women the men seem overbearing. Men can not hear women unless they really listen. --- 01/26/1994
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Men get turned on by visual stimulation. Women get turned on by verbal and touch stimulation. --- 08/20/1994
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Men: fight, hunt. Woman: love, nurture. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Men: provider, protector. Women: nurturer, care giver. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Natural men and women vs. artificial men and women (plastic, fashioned). --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Percent of needy (adult) people in an society (1) getting any like/lust, (2) getting crappy, so so, good, or great like/lust. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Putting the issue of reproduction aside, I think that if the human race consisted only of men they would have destroyed themselves completely quite quickly, such is their violence. It is the caring presence of women that keeps the human-race going, even without the actual physical birthing. I can see a woman-centered civilization lasting a very long time. Women and sustainability are a match. --- 2/25/2001
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Sex. (1) Man. Can provide. Strong physically. (2) Woman. Emotionally sensitive. Physically not as strong. Has kids. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- The life experience of men and women. What each sex values in selves, other sex, and life. Pro and contra of hard, rough, violent, vs. soft, sensitive, and kind. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- They hoax of the alpha male and alpha female. They want to be the big dogs. The premise of the hoax is that some men and women are naturally physically and psychologically stronger and more resilient and have a need to compete and win. There is a mistaken definition of alpha male or female as smart, driven, strong, aggressive and successful. And they assume everyone else wants to be an alpha. What a load of hog wash. The alpha male and alpha female is a joke. A ploy to try to justify hyper-competitiveness and bullying. The fallacies involved include thinking that "because nature is like that humans should be like that too". Its a mistake to think that "what's natural is what's ethical". Its a mistake to think that "we have to behave like animals". And its a fallacy to think that nature is always pure competition anyway. There are many examples of animal cooperation and nurturing. Alpha male and alpha female smacks of social darwinism and eugenics. It smacks of the flawed "great man" theory of history that holds that only the "great" are important, or that the "great" are more important than others. It makes the mistake of seeing money and occupational success as the sole or highest values. Most progress in art, philosophy and science is made by cooperative, thoughtful individuals. --- 1/3/2004
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Two intersecting axis. Vertical one labeled positive (healthy) and negative (unhealthy). Horizontal one labeled traditional male traits and traditional female traits. By trait I mean a psychological trait, a way of thinking, a behavioral trait, a philosophy of identity, or a view of the world. The best zone to be in is across the top of the diagram. The ideal is for any male or female to be able to adopt any trait, behavior, identity, or view of the world, that is healthy, regardless if it is seen as a traditionally masculine or feminine trait, and no one else (person or persons) gives them shit (stress) for it. Such a condition is not called androgyny. Androgyny is when everyone is the same, and they are all in the middle between masculine and feminine. What we are talking about here is rather maximum freedom of choice for all individuals. --- 03/01/1997
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Where did man come from? He walked out of the forest. Where did woman come from? She walked out of the department store. (That is a tongue in chic remark). --- 9/26/2000
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Which mental states and behaviors an individual or society considers to be manly or unmanly, and womanly or unwomanly (and why) vs. what actual objective truth is. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Women and men in general have different values, goals, and priorities. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Women are not as tough as men, they are more sensitive, their feelings are more easily hurt. Men are more callous and insensitive, but women are just as vicious. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Women try to get love without giving sex. Men try to get sex without giving love. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Women: caring, sharing, child bearing. Men: staring, scareing, noseflaring. --- 12/30/1995
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Women: form, beauty. Men: function, action. --- 12/30/1992
Sociology, sexuality, men and women. --- Women: tiny, soft, curvy; mysterious, inscrutable. Men: big, hard, angular. --- 12/30/1992