Paul Nervy Notes
“Jokes, poems, stories, and a lot of philosophy, psychology, and sociology.”


Main page




Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  .This section is about sex.  ---  1/24/2006


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  (1) Arguments for sex.  It makes you old fast.  Which is good when you are young and need to mature quickly in intelligence and experiential knowledge.     (2) Arguments against sex.  It makes you old fast.  Which is bad when you already have the knowledge, and the sex just wears you out physically and mentally over short and long term.  ---  3/30/1993


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Behavior.  Frequency of smooching, of climax, of talking, of being around each other.  Too much vs. too little.  Optimal frequency: no more than x, no less than y.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Behavior.  Heterosexual vs. homosexual.  Quick sex vs.long sex.  Hard sex vs. soft sex.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Behavior.  Types of sexual expression: (1) Homosexual, heterosexual, and auto-erotic.  (2) Sixty nine, doggie style, missionary, mutual masturbation.  (3) Lying, sitting, standing.  (4) Kissing, hugging, stroking, caressing, massaging.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Behavioral, action, and expression aspects of sex.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Can you be healthy without a good sex life?  Can you be complete without a good sex life?  Can you be human without a good sex life?  Thinking on it, and doing it.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Even just thinking about sex can be addictive, leading you to think about it more, and act on it, leaving you depressed when you don't have it (withdrawal).  The only solution is to (1) Explore it in theory, figure out all the questions and answers, feel all the emotions.  (2) Explore it in practice, and do all the things.  (3) Then basically drop it, and work off of love only, without sex.  It is like drugs, do it all, figure it all out, and then drop it.  ---  10/05/1994


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  I'm sick of sex or I'm sick from sex?  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Physical and biological aspects of sex.  Hormones, drives, gender.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Physical.  Hormones.  (1) Estrogen.  More body fat.  More crying.  (2) Testosterone.  Less body fat.  More combative.  Less crying.  ---  9/24/1998


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Physical.  How do you know if you are horny and hard from (1) lust, (2) love, (3) stress, (4) pathological sex, or (5) just have to piss?  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Physical.  Love: it is a warm glow, a buzz that starts in the thighs and spreads all over your entire body when you relax.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Physical.  Orgasm is the place of strong emotion.  Everyday life is the search for orgasm.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Physical.  Orgasm, is it electroschock?  Electrical buildup by friction, then discharge?  Does it destroy memory?  Does it change personality slightly?  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Physical.  Orgasm.  Every orgasm equals (1) One days physical work gone.  (2) One days mental work gone.  (A) New ideas, memories, learning and studying postponed.  (B) Emotional development and social development postponed.  (3) One day goals not gotten and not thought of.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Physical.  Orgasm.  Why does orgasm feel so good?  What's going on when we orgasm?  What does it do to your mind?  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Physical.  When you neuter a male dog, how does it affect the dog?  Does the dog become feminized?  Does the dog become less horny?  Does the dog become less aggressive?  Does the dog become less creative?  Does the dog become homosexual?  ---  4/23/1999


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Safe sex is the kinkiest type of sex, with its condoms, rubber gloves, dental dams, and no kissing.  ---  02/09/1997


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Sex can be the ultimate form of communication.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Sex can heal or sex can destroy, it is up to you.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Sex is a commodity.  All sex relationships are business arrangements.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Sex is a problem: we want it bad, but it is not right there for us, like breathing and the air is.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Sex is a temporary power, use it wisely.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Sex is like a pressure that builds up and must be let off.  Not really.  ---  03/26/1994


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Sex is not about body parts or chromosomes.  Sex is about fu*king and getting fu*ked.  Both sexes should be allowed to do both.  It is a power game, a head game, too.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Sex is often a copout like drugs.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Sex is pleasurable but ultimately boring and also a waste of time.  Do Progressive activism.  ---  6/12/2007  ---  *


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Sex: what everyone thinks about, yet what no one talks about.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Sex.  (1) The less you do it, the better it feels.  Up to what point?  A week, no more.  (2) The more you do it, the worse it feels.  Up to what point?  No limit.  ---  01/08/1994


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  The conservative's old definition of sex: sex is a means to procreate only.  The conservative's new definition of sex: sex is a means to blackmail your enemies only.  ---  9/25/2003


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Two types of lovemaking and guys and girls who prefer either:  (1) Rough, urgent, quick.  (2) Soft, slow, tender.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Two types of sex.  (1) Casual.  Neither partner exchanges any fluids.  Safe and fun.  (2) Serious.  Both partners exchange all fluids (including blood).  Emotionally deep, unsafe, and earth shaking.  ---  02/01/1994


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  We are sexual from birth to death.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  What is sex like?  Some people say sex is like eating a peach.  Not really.  Some people say sex is like sneezing.  Not really.  I say sex is like sneezing while you are eating a peach.  Yeah, that's it.  ---  6/30/2004


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  What percent of the benefits of sex are due to touching?  What percent of the benefits of sex are due to intercourse?  What percent of the benefits of sex are due to orgasm?  ---  11/10/2001


Sociology, sexuality, sex.  ---  Who doesn't deserve tons of great sex on demand?  Most don't get it.  Many never get any good sex at all.  No one deserves this deprivation.  ---  12/30/1992




Main page


Paul Nervy Notes. Copyright 1988-2007 by Paul Nervy.